Friday, September 17, 2010

Rosalyn Update...

Well, it has been waaaaay too long since I devoted an "update" post just to Rosalyn...my little princess, my first babygirl, the angel who made me a mommy 3 years ago. So here it is!

She went to the doctor this month for her 3 year old check-up. Her pediatrician said she was "a perfect three year old" and was impressed with her language. Anyone who knows her can attest to the fact that she is motor mouth :)

She is 37 inches tall (39%) and 34.5 lb (83%). Her head is 20 inches which is "off the charts." She is a solid chunk, but her BMI is within the healthy range. She will be wearing 4T clothes this fall...her 3T summer clothes are getting snug.

She is totally, completely daytime and nightime potty trained...I can't remember the last time she had an accident. I am so glad to be pull-up free! She has been daytime trained since about March and nighttime trained since July.

One of my biggest worries with her proved to be no big deal...She gave up her beloved paci totally on her own, "cold turkey" style. About a week before her birthday, she just told me she was going to throw it away...I didn't believe her but she did it and never really looked back. It was just like that...she slept with it the night before in her mouth and then decided to just toss it the next day! I am so glad because now I have no worries about C and E's paci habits. The pediatric dentist had already assured me that the paci was no big deal and that she would probably do exactly what she did, but I guess I didn't believe him.

She has given up naps entirely (actually she has been nap free since about February). She will occasionally fall asleep for a few minutes in the afternoon if she gets still and quiet. She sleeps about 12 hours at night and is usually in bed asleep at about 7 pm.

She can count out loud to 20, count actual objects by herself, recognize numbers, recognize letters and some letter sounds, and knows all her colors/shapes. It has been amazing to me to see her gather this knowledge with very little "help" from me...we occasionally do letter flashcards but that is it...all the rest is learned from playing/reading (which I think is best). She can sing lots of songs and has several books memorized word-for-word. Her very favorite book to recite is "The Very Hungry Caterpillar." Her favorite things to play are blocks, dress-up, and babies (you would think she would have abandoned playing babies since she gets plenty of the real thing!). She has become extremely imaginative and into pretending/role-play. She LOVES art projects...she paints nearly every single day and is learning to cut/paste. She also loves to put on a "music show" as she calls it which entails getting all her instruments and performing for an audience of 3...me, Caroline, and Elaina :)

She has such a bubbly, sweet, social personality and quite a flair for drama. She recently spent an hour sobbing because she doesn't have blue eyes...I could not convince her how great hazel eyes are! She finally moved past it only to have the whole episode triggered again when she pulled out her (blue) blocks to build a castle! Also, she was recently in my bed early the in morning when I heard her whispering loudly "MOMMA! Roger (our cat) is twyin' to kill me!" She was very insistent that the (extremely gentle) cat was indeed trying to murder her that very moment...I turned over to inspect and he was just pawing her chest in an attempt to make her pet him! A few nights ago, she called me to her room after bedtime and was upset. She told me "I hope you just get rid of dat jeep I got for my birfday." When I asked her why (because she did LOVE it just hours before), she informed me "I think it might just ride me right out in dat road and take me far away from my mommy and daddy." She fell in love with her jeep again once I reassured her that it was not possible for the Barbie Jeep she got from Nana and Pop to take her away from me!

A few of her favorites: anything she thinks is "scary"--she LOVES to talk about monsters, pb&j, reading books, painting, jewelry, Dora, Lady GaGa songs (I do not endorse this, but if she hears one on the radio she screams to listen to it!), wearing make-up (just chapstick!), watching Olivia, getting Starbucks with mommy, going to school/church/MOPS--anywhere that she can see her "fwends."

If she sees someone upset, she is usually the first to try to hug them or make them laugh. She is extremely loving and very emotionally "in tune." She easily detects the feelings of others. She is learning more about the little girl that Jesus wants her to be and it has been really neat to hear her talk about Jesus. For example, she is very possessive of the seat at the end of our couch...she will quickly tell anyone that it is HER seat and ask them to move if she feels so inclined. Well, today Jason's grandparents were coming over so I had a talk with her ahead of time about letting Papaw have her seat because it is the easiest for him to get in and out of...she looked at me and said in a slightly exasperated tone "Jesus says to serve others." It was funny to hear her say that, but I was impressed that she said that since I had not even mentioned Jesus. It was a GREAT teaching time also and a real lesson for her on serving others.

She is very sweet and helpful with the babies. She loves to play with them and talks so sweetly to them when they are upset. She enjoys being the "paci helper" or the "diaper fixer." She is also a bit naughty with them at times, but what can I expect from a three year old! One day I left her with them for a few minutes and I came back to find them corralled in a corner and barricaded off...she quickly informed that they were her "pets" and she had put them in their "cage"...they looked mildly amused and didn't seem to mind too much so I let the game continue. Another favorite activity of hers is to pile tons of blankets and burp rags on top of them as they sit in their bouncers...they also don't mind this too much and she thinks it is hysterically funny! She is so happy that they can now sometimes take a bath with her...she loves to help wash their hair (but refuses to have her own washed). All in all, she adores Caroline and Elaina and the feeling is definitely mutual--they watch her with eager anticipation of what she will do next. For Caroline especially, all Rosalyn has to do is look at her and she will just begin laughing and squealing!

She has been doing more "chores" at home also...some things I let her be in charge of: putting away silverware from the dishwasher, folding washcloths, wiping off the table and chairs with a baby wipe, bringing items to/from the refrigerator & pantry when I cook, and picking up her toys. All these things are good activities for her (sorting, matching, fine motor/gross motor, exercise, etc). She is really a great little helper and LOVES to have a job (I hope this attitude is still there when she is 13...HA!).

She can quite sassy to me at time, but we are working on it. Sometimes it is SO hard not to laugh because she sounds so funny but I know I have to be firm with her now so I do try my best to stay consistant. Since she can be a bit strong willed, I do believe strongly in picking my battles with her. I let little things slide if they don't matter (for instance she insisted on wearing her Santa Claus bow to school last week with a Hawaiian print sundress, but I let her!). Her daddy is a little softer than me. :)

I love her so much and I am so proud of her...she is the perfect little girl for me--she is everything I ever wanted and prayed for years ago :) She is full of spunk and sass with just enough sweetness to balance it out!

Here are her recent pictures....

Walking onto the porch for her birthday party...
She was so surprised!!
Her beautiful Dora cake (thanks Barbie!!)...
Riding in her Barbie Jeep...she loves it!
Her cake on her "real birthday"...
Blowing out the candle...
This girl loves cake!!
Sad birthday girl after getting a shot :(
She snuck into the pantry and got the sprinkles out!
Swimming...
First day of school...she is going to "Children's Day Out" at a local church on Mondays and Wednesdays from 8:30-2...she LOVES it!
Pictures from our baby dedication..we had Rosalyn, Caroline, and Elaina dedicated at church...it was very special to do all three of our sweeties at the same time!
The very first picture we have of all five of us together...sad I know!
Getting ready for her first ballet class...she was SO excited!!

Waiting anxiously with BFF Kaylin...
This is what happened when Nana left Rosalyn alone for a while with paint...She told my mom "I am a veeewy messy ah-tist, Nana." We can tell. Honestly, I don't mind too much because she truly loves art and as long as the products are Crayola (a rule in my house!) they are extremely washable!

Hope you enjoyed this update on my sweet, beautiful girl...she brings me such joy and happiness...the smile on my face is often because of something she said or did!

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Happy 3rd Birthday, Rosalyn!


They didn't have you where I come from...

Never knew the best was yet to come...

Life began when I saw your face...

And I hear your laugh like a serenade...

How long do you want to be loved?

Is forever enough, Is forever enough?

How long do you want be loved?

Is forever enough...

Cause I'm never, never giving you up...

I slip in bed when you're asleep...

To hold you close and feel your breath on me...

Tomorrow there'll be so much to do...

So tonight I'll drift in a dream with you...

As you wander through this troubled world...

In search of all things beautiful...

You can close your eyes when your miles away...

And hear my voice like a serenade...

How long do you want to be loved?
Is forever enough, Is forever enough?
How long do you want to be loved?
Is forever enough...
...Cause I'm never, never giving you up...
Happy Birthday, Sweet Rosalyn! You are more loved than you could ever imagine!


Disclaimer...the lyrics in this post are from "Lullaby" by the Dixie Chicks and many of these photos were taken by our friend/photographer Amanda Flowers.

Friday, August 20, 2010

4 Months!!!

I simply cannot believe these little sweeties are 4 months old today!

*Elaina-left and Caroline-right in each picture below*





We had Amanda come over this week to take some pictures of Rosalyn and the babies...they weren't that cooperative, but we still managed to get a few cute ones!


Yesterday was Caroline and Elaina's 4 month appointment. Caroline is 13.25 lb (29%), 24.25 in (35%), and her head is 16.25 in (47%). Elaina is bigger now--13.9 lb (43%), 24.5 in (45%), and her head is also 16.25 in (47%). So, big sister has been outgrown by little sister :) The pediatrician declared them both to be healthy, happy, beautiful babies (of course I agree!) with the exception of acid reflux problems which is being treated with an increased dose of Prevacid and special formula for both babies. They each got 2 shots + an oral vaccine...it turned them into fussy little cranksters and they have spent most of today crying even with Tylenol :(


Their personalities have really developed and they are extremely different! A good example: yesterday at the pediatrician's office Caroline destroyed quite a bit of that paper lining that goes over the exam table...she was so curious about it and just loved the way it looked/felt/sounded when she was crinkling it and would smile with delight when she crinkled or tore it. Elaina on the other hand, was not impressed. She turned down her lip and you could see her just shudder each time that Caroline would tear or crinkle that paper...I could tell it was making her so nervous to hear and feel it (they were laying side by side on the table). As soon as I picked her up, she was calm and content to watch Caroline tear the paper while snuggled in the safety of Mommy's arms. It is hilarious to us to observe their differences...they are both so precious though!


Caroline can: roll over tummy to back, laugh out loud like crazy, prop up on elbows and look around, and grab toys to put in her mouth. She is a very happy, mellow baby and likes to play and look around at her surroundings. She is a much "easier" baby than Elaina, but much harder to get her to eat/sleep.


Elaina can: laugh out loud (but is usually too shy), prop up on elbows and look around, grab her toys to put in her her mouth AND she sleeps 10-11 hours many nights! She will lean her body to me and cry if she wants me to take her from someone else. She is a snuggly baby and prefers to be held most of the time...some would label her as a fussy baby, but I think she is just a little princess :) Despite her fussiness when awake, she is a much better eater and sleeper than Caroline.


They both are quickly outgrowing their size 0-3 months clothes and size 2 diapers. They are usually in bed asleep by 7 pm at latest. Elaina will often sleep until 4-6 am before waking to eat, but Miss Caroline usually wakes us up around 1 am to eat and then again around 5 am. They are both up for the day around 7 am. They take 3-4 naps/day. They eat 6-7x/day. Elaina usually eats about 26 oz/day...Caroline usually eats about 22 oz/day.


So, there's the 4 month update! They are both just sweet and precious...I love them more than I could have ever imagined possible!

Rosalyn's 3rd birthday party is tomorrow, so we are looking forward to it. We decided to do a low-key, family only party this year since things have been so hectic with the babies.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

A Few New Pictures of the Babies...

Here are a few new pictures of my sweet angel baby girls...

Elaina
Caroline

Sitting in the Bumbo Seats

They both seem to be saying "Mom, seriously, no more pictures, got it?"
No pictures of Rosalyn today because she mostly outright refuses to participate in the many photo-ops I try to bribe her into! The babies smile and laugh a lot now, but when the camera comes out I mostly get curious expressions! They are so sweet though. I will try to write a longer update post later!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010


One of her famous outfits...she must have exhausted herself trying on all her options :)

Oh how I love this little girl...the things she says keep me laughing each and every day. I simply cannot believe she will soon be three years old. Here are a few recent highlights. I am quoting her word-for-word in these descriptions below (pronunciation and bad grammar included!)...

A few nights ago, I noticed Rosalyn was putting pennies underneath her pillow before bedtime. As a side note, she is obsessed with going to kindergarten and talks about it several times a day. We have tried to no avail to explain to her that she still has a while before she can attend kindergarten. Anyway, this is how the conversation went...
Me: Rosalyn, why are you putting those pennies underneath your pillow?
Ros: Well, Momma, I'm puttin' dis money here so da toof fai-wy will come and take out all my baby teef so I can go to kinda-gawden!
Me: (trying not to laugh at her because she was very serious) Really?
Ros: Yes, Mommy, dat toof fai-wy is comin' tonight and then I weally weally can go to kinda-gawden...I'm am soooo excited!

Saturday afternoon, Rosalyn got it in her head that she needed a haircut (which she refers to as a "shortcut"). She has had her hair trimmed once by Lisa but showing her the pictures of that did not make her happy and she insisted that she needed a "shortcut" that very day! This is what she said...
Ros: Momma, I'm am gettin' a shortcut today.
Me: Rosalyn, today is not a good day, I'll take you soon to see Auntie Lisa and she can trim it.
Ros: No, Momma, I'm am gettin' a shortcut TODAY. Dis hair needs a shortcut.
Needless to say, I ended up letting the Wal-Mart salon trim it (barely) that afternoon before shopping for groceries. I was too afraid that with her determination we may end up with a self cut otherwise. She sat in the chair just as proud as a little peacock getting her "shortcut."

This afternoon, I was holding a fussy Elaina when she came up to me with a distressed look on her face...
Me: What's wrong, Rosalyn?
Ros: Momma, you jus pwease put dat baby Wain-da (how she says Elaina) down in her bed and wet her cwy."
Me: Rosalyn, why do you want me to do that...Elaina has a tummy ache. I can hold you too, come here.
Ros: No, Momma, just put Wain-da down. Don't wuwwy (worry)...you can be her mommy lata. I want you to jus hold me and jus be MY mommy wight now and I'll jus be your big-girl-baby Wos-wyn, ok.
Talk about stabbing me straight through the heart!

Yesterday, Rosalyn told me that she needed a jewelry box...
Me: Why do you need a jewelry box, Rosalyn?
Ros: I need a jewel-wy box so I can put all my accessowies in it.
Me: What kind of accessories are you talking about?
Ros: Momma, you know, my bwacelet and my wings (rings), and scawfs (scarfs), and make-up.

A couple of weeks ago, she fixed herself a little seat using a stool and a laundry basket. I cautioned her that she may fall, but she still insisted to try it out. When she got on her seat she told me "Dat sure was cleva (clever), Momma. I'm am weally cleva! Do you fink (think) I'm am a cleva girl?"

Today, she was carrying around a shiny dime everywhere and would not let it leave her side. When I inquired about it, she told me with a forlorn expression that it was her "wish." I said "What is your wish, baby?" and she said "I jus wish my Nana would come to dis house and pick me up to go to her house and I can spend da night wif her." That just about broke my heart! My mom has been out of town for nearly two weeks and Rosalyn misses her terribly. :(

Monday, July 19, 2010

Three months old...

Elaina in the bumbo seat

Curious Caroline

This picture is a priceless example of their current personalities! Caroline is just chilling out and looking around while Elaina wails because she is scared of the wind, the grass, her own voice, etc and just wants to be snuggled!

It's always better when we're together...



I can't believe that my babies will be three months old tomorrow (the 20th)...it seems like they were just yesterday squirming around inside of my huge, miserable body! They are beyond precious and have truly completed our hearts :) Here is a little update on them (although I am sure you mostly just want pictures)...


They both weigh a little over 12 lb now (according to our scales). I am not sure of the length because they will not cooperate for that! They are wearing size 2 diapers and their 0-3 month clothes are getting snug.


They are eating 2-3 oz every 2.5-3 hours during the day. Their "bedtime bottle" is usually 5-6 oz. They eat on average 16-20 oz/day. They can both be very fussy eaters, but I am hoping this improves with time. As of this week, they are getting 100% formula (Similac Sensitive RS...liquid kind only, no powder). I am grateful to have been able to pump breastmilk for them for the first three months, but the time commitment was just too great to continue pumping with three little children needing my constant care. Now we move from time commitment to financial commitment, haha! Formula right now is about $9/day...$270/month! As they start eating more, that number will easily rise to about $360/month...yikes!


Thankfully, they are good sleepers and put themselves to sleep fairly easily. At night, they have been (keeping my fingers crossed here) sleeping for one 8.5 hour stretch followed by one 3-4 hour stretch. They take 3-4 naps a day ranging from 45 min to 2.5 hours. I usually wake them up at the 2.5 hour mark if they are still asleep. Elaina will only sleep on her stomach, so we ordered the Angel Care breathing monitor to help put my mind at ease since stomach sleeping is associated with SIDS...it works great! Caroline will only sleep swaddled and on her side supported with sleeping wedges. They both need their pacis to sleep and their heartbeat bear/fan on for background noise. They will also nap occasionally in the swings. They HATE their carseats and for that reason we are basically on shut-in status :)


They both smile all the time and have laughed out loud several times...it is adorable! They can lift their heads very well and raise their chests off the ground during tummy time. They have both accidentally rolled over once. If they are anything like Rosalyn, they may be on the late end of normal with motor skills like rolling over, crawling, etc (which is just fine with me...less kids to chase!).


We do not have a real "schedule" yet for daytime...I just follow their cues and it seems to work so far (but I do keep them on the same schedule if that makes sense...always feed them at the same time, try to nap at the same time, etc). The only time of the day I am super strict with is bedtime and wake up time. Our normal bedtime routine is:


5:30 pm--quiet play
6 pm--Rosalyn snack/Babies bottle
6:20 pm--Rosalyn bath/Babies bath
6:45 pm--everyone dressed/in bed--read to Rosalyn, shush/give pacis to babies
7 pm--everyone asleep! I love having them all in bed by 7 pm...Jason and I get to eat dinner together and I have time to read, blog, play on internet, shower, etc before going to bed around 10 pm. I try my best not to do any chores after the kids are in bed.


We usually always get up at 7 am to start the day! So, I guess between 7 am-7 pm kind of varies each day (but it is still the same basic routine).


Things they both love: bathtime, being cuddled/talked to, watching big sister Rosalyn, trying to watch tv when I am not looking :)


Things they both hate: carseats, having fingernails clipped, cold baby wipes, tummy time


Caroline is a mellow little baby and reminds me so much of Rosalyn as a baby. She is calm, collected, and willing to just "hang out." She will happily lay on her playmat and watch Rosalyn or look at toys for 30 minutes without a peep. She has a slow easy smile and is just the sweetest little baby ever. She often has the cutest little curious expression on her face as she looks around at her surroundings. She is not very picky and likes to be held and talked to, but also likes to be alone at times. Caroline prefers to fall asleep on her own in her bed and will greatly protest being rocked to sleep (again, a lot like Rosalyn). She can get pretty loud and upset without warning if you let her get overly hungry or tired, but usually she is a very happy baby.


Elaina has turned out to be the little firecracker (despite my earlier predictions). She is my most "high maintanance" baby and can be extremely fussy sometimes, but is also very quick to give the biggest toothless grin ever! She definitely wears her heart on her sleeve...smiles and cries very easily. I joke that Elaina thinks she is an only child or a princess...she would prefer to be held 24 hours of the day and at times will wail indignantly before her body even touches the bed when you begin to lay her down. However, when you pick her back up she is all smiles and snuggles! She is also very easily frightened...loud noises, sudden movements, etc really startle her. A few days ago she passed gas loudly and startled herself so much that she began crying! We also are amused by how finicky she can be...even at just 3 months I have to arrange her covers a certain way (so that she can hold on to the edge of the blanket) or she will refuse to fall asleep. She is a funny, precious baby--fussiness, finickiness, and all :)


So, that is our little update! Also, in case you ever wonder, these blog updates are so lengthy and detailed because I save them as a journal for Rosalyn and the babies (I know that most of you readers don't really care about all those little things!)

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

There's going to be a new baby in the family!!! :)

and NO--it will definitely not be a Kelly baby. I am beyond thrilled that my wonderful brother and sister-in-law will be adding a little one to their family in December! I will be an aunt! It is going to be so much fun and I am excited that they will get to experience all the joys of being a parent. Congratulations, Alan and Kelsey! We know you are going to be great parents and we can't wait to meet our sweet "baby cousin" (that is what Rosalyn refers to the baby as). They should find out in a few weeks if "baby cousin" is a he or a she :)

Alan and Kelsey at my house last weekend...she is 14 weeks and you can't
even tell...she looks beautiful!

July 6, 2010

Here are a few recent pictures of the girls...

Caroline


Elaina

Rosalyn

Things have been busy around here, but a little quiet...not too much news lately (except for one bit of news that I will share in a separate post!). The babies are growing and changing every day. Today at the doctor Caroline weighed 11lb4oz and Elaina has passed up her "older" sister at 11lb8oz! Rosalyn is as funny and sassy as ever, keeping us constantly on our toes. Hope you enjoyed the pics!